There can be a several ton difference between a 28' and 30' yacht. This is why you are seeing seemingly huge difference between boats only a couple of feet difference in length.
The "lifting strakes" on your boat will not cause you to capsize. Traction wouldn't be a term I'd use on these. If you are in weather so severe that leeward skidding is apparent, the strakes will very modestly help slow you a bit, but nope, they will not "trip" the boat into a capsize. You have much more to worry about from windage and beam seas than the strakes, trust me.
I've been struck by lightening twice (you'd think I'd learn, right). One boat had protection, the other none, just a big 'ol aluminum mast yelling "come kiss me" to all the ambient electrons flow around. The protected boat had some minor damage to the rod lead wire and it's hold downs. The unprotected boat had it's mast brought down and we were all knocked out for a while (maybe 5 minutes at most). We awoke to a quickly floundering boat in heavy seas. Fortunately, I was in a specially prepared "hurricane hunter" boat and my crew was a Lt. commander and a full commander of the local USCG. Yes, lightening protection was included in our next example of a hurricane sailors (yep, we intentionally went out in ridiculously rough weather). Story shot, it's not a very common thing to happen, unless you live here and like to sail heavy weather, in the Florida summer and fall. Protection is fairly simple to set up and will keep you from steering a chair with your chin, for the rest of your life.