Hello Brian,
Quite a while back already, on this very thread, you mentioned Procyon's masthead problem, and I addressed the issue then...uh, well, I thought I had...but maybe I wasn't intelligible then...or, maybe your memory is even more like Swiss cheese than mine...but wait, here's the link:
http://www.boatdesign.net/forums/boat-design/wishbone-sailing-rig-1999-16.html#post499688
Anyhow, some details and photos are there at that link, and my comments then seem as intelligible as my usual gibberish and there's little hope for improvement, but I will add that by the time I threw the bright idea, of putting an A-frame on my cat, to Malcolm Tennant, he had long since thought of such an animal, knew all about Procyon's problems, and had also been dealing for years with issues of flexibility on catamarans, and he dealt quite handily with this one.
In short, the A-frame structure must not be rigid; there must be allowance for some movement, not just at the masthead but at all junctions and especially at all three corners of the big triangle formed by the mast legs and the boat.
On Catbird Suite, each of the two mastheads has a plate, (a silhouette of a bird) of about 400mm by 1500mm, welded to the masthead, so that the bolts holding the two mastheads together are spread over a large area, and there is considerable play in the bolt holes drilled through those plates (which play I'm sure would be appreciated by any red-blooded bolt). Also, a thick rubber gasket is sandwiched between the plates (and the holes in that gasket are EXACTLY the diameter of the bolts, so that no bolt, or dolt, could complain about looseness of fit). See photo at the link given above.
The bases of the two mast sections are cut in a slight curve so that they have rocker, i.e., Catbird Suite's masts can ROCK. (Can yours?) Each mast base is stepped within and loosely pinned through a stainless collar which is welded onto a stainless plate beneath which there is a thick rubber gasket.