Thank you for your suggestion, Skyak. I can see that you are much inclined towards junk rig. I haven't tried it yet, but I should sometime.
Anyway, I have just returned from one of the biggest annual regatta's in Lithuania, where I scored a 2nd place in an "open" class (7 boats in total) over 3 races. Even better, I scored 5th position
in the whole 30 boat fleet (all classes sailed together, no handicap) - which consistent of Lasers, 420's, 470's, catamarans, a trimaran, several cruising yachts, a 36 feet Dutch racing monster, and a bunch of other, race-oriented dinghies.
So, after leaving most of these fancy, factory-built, racing-oriented sailboats in my wake, I can't continue complaining about the performance of a little, lug-rigged, home-made boat in good conscience anymore.

Really, the boat performed great. After flattening the sail out and reducing twist to a minimum, the performance difference between "good" and "bad" tacks is pretty much negligible. Maybe the "bad" tack is still a little better by a few percent, but that's just being picky now.
Here's one photo after regatta which captures the sail at a perfect angle. Looks pretty fine to me now. (Before you say it, the passenger on the boat is from my support team, a girlfriend of my good old school friend).
So, thank you all very much for your ideas and advice to solve this mystery. It helped a lot, and the improvements I made based on your suggestions made this huge victory possible. Yay for lugs and Boat Design Forum community!
