I don't find coamings difficult to make, even the grand curved ones I always seem to draw up. I do it one of several ways, but usually I laminate thin plywood, then cap it with a grooved section of hardwood. Another method I use fairly often, especially on deck with a lot of "spring" to them, is a horizontal laminate of hardwood, stacked until it's high enough to call a coaming. I don't like seeing the horizontal lamination too much, though alternating with light and darker wood species can be nice.
My general approach is a rough carlin and spring clamp a thin piece of plywood or chip board to it, bending it around as necessary, then tracing the bottom of the carlin and the deck line on it. Once removed I'll spring a batten an rough in the shape of the top. Then it's re attached to the carlin and looked at from every angle, adjustments are made, it's rehung, etc. When satisfied with the shape, it's transferred to the actual stock, cut and hung.
The counter stern isn't that difficult a task if you want to add this feature to the boat. You'll be cutting a new transom angle from the old hull rather then adding, so it's just a matter of placing the cut line in the right place (remember the laser level I mentioned) and having at it with a jig saw. Of course you'll need to make a new transom flange, but it doesn't have to look good, just strong. This assumes you'll use a plywood, possibly skinned with hardwood transom. I think the boat will look fine with the counter and a flush deck, if the proportions are right. Then again a hardwood coaming, that rolls into cabin sides and a sloping front too, would be really fine.
It might be easier to make this decision by making a list of the activities on the boat, while in use. Beer drinking, gazing at scantily clad your ladies on beaches, attempting to sail while doing either or, etc. and see how much real cabin space needs pop up. If you have a list of a dozen items you might indulge yourself with aboard, how many require a cabin? Of these that might need a cabin, could you make do without it? Would a boom tent be better or worse for these activities?