I'm afraid that whoever sold you the dyneema bridle was a little off course.
There is a fairly recent article about anchoring bridles on Practical Sailor. I'm pretty sure its publicly accessible. If not PM me and I'll see if I have a copy somewhere. I recommend you start there.
Having a dyneema bridle is not helpful. The purpose of the bridle is both to keep you from yawing, which decreases anchor holding power, but also to provide shock absorption. The shock absorption is what decreases the load on the anchor. The reduction in felt load is dramatic.
You want an all nylon bridle. Climbing rope is especially good, but as it only comes in smaller diameters, your boat size may require something bigger than 12mm. It's also impossible to splice, but as its tested with knots, you're not losing anything. There are 'gym' ropes made for commercial use and repetitive falls that have a heavier sheath. They hold up especially well. Nylon double braid or eight braid are also okay. Three strand nylon works too, I just don't like it
The diameter of the soft shackle line is important but you can absolutely trust them. They are very strong and secure. Check out 'how not too' on YT for any number of testing videos. I use a 4mm dyneema soft shackle to attach my bridle to my anchor chain on a 38 foot cat. Tubular climbing webbing or a dyneema loop attached with a prussik to the chain are also good solutions.
Dyneema is very easy to splice. You can find some use for the bridle, or perhaps make a bunch of beefy soft shackles. You can avoid the button knots complexity by making toggles from aluminum rod. The toggle soft shackles are also quicker and easier to use.
There is a fairly recent article about anchoring bridles on Practical Sailor. I'm pretty sure its publicly accessible. If not PM me and I'll see if I have a copy somewhere. I recommend you start there.
Having a dyneema bridle is not helpful. The purpose of the bridle is both to keep you from yawing, which decreases anchor holding power, but also to provide shock absorption. The shock absorption is what decreases the load on the anchor. The reduction in felt load is dramatic.
You want an all nylon bridle. Climbing rope is especially good, but as it only comes in smaller diameters, your boat size may require something bigger than 12mm. It's also impossible to splice, but as its tested with knots, you're not losing anything. There are 'gym' ropes made for commercial use and repetitive falls that have a heavier sheath. They hold up especially well. Nylon double braid or eight braid are also okay. Three strand nylon works too, I just don't like it
The diameter of the soft shackle line is important but you can absolutely trust them. They are very strong and secure. Check out 'how not too' on YT for any number of testing videos. I use a 4mm dyneema soft shackle to attach my bridle to my anchor chain on a 38 foot cat. Tubular climbing webbing or a dyneema loop attached with a prussik to the chain are also good solutions.
Dyneema is very easy to splice. You can find some use for the bridle, or perhaps make a bunch of beefy soft shackles. You can avoid the button knots complexity by making toggles from aluminum rod. The toggle soft shackles are also quicker and easier to use.