I'll try to answer some questions as best I can.
1. Weight. The published densities of aspen vary in the above-mentioned range but the accepted norm seems to be 410-450kg/m3. This means 2.46-2.7kg/m2 for 6mm. Comes out 29.5- 32.4kg for the core. To this we add fiberglass on both sides, so 24m2x200g/m2=4.8kg, plus the same amount of epoxy, plus some paint and the frames. If it comes out under 45kg without rudder, daggerboard and mast it's a good day.
Western red cedar isn't much lighter, if I take 350kg/m3 the core is 25.2kg, it would be hard to keep the naked hull under 36kg.
Realistically you can't keep the hull under 36kg with birch ply either, if I use 750kg/m3 it's 36kg just for the hull surface without any epoxy fillets and fiberglass tapes or frames. I would be possible with a lighter plywood that weighs a maximum of 550kg/m3. That would be okoume or poplar ply. The problem is, okoume is expensive and maybe not available to you and poplar is seldomly available in the required quality (WBP glue and "no" voids).
With foam you need more glass, since the foam only contributes stiffness not strenght. Using a standard 80kg/m2 and 8mm thickness it's 7.68kg for the core. With 450g/m2 glass on each side, it's 10.8kg of glass. Plus another 10kg of epoxy, frames, some fairing and paint. Can you keep the naked hull under 36kg, probably yes. The complete fitted out boat, maybe. You can go to a thicker core and lighter glass and make it a definitive yes, but you have to accept the resulting fragility regarding puncture and abrasion. O course the lighter you make the boat the easier it is to just lift it instead of dragging.
2. Cost. Wood cost increases the more processed it is. So cheapest is the round tree, then green flitches (boards with bark on the edge), dried flitches, rectangular boards (called equalised lumber), planed boards.
If you can wait a little you buy green flitches, if not whatever is cheapest dried. Flitches and boards usually come in 25 and 50mm thickness, you slice the strips from the side using a handheld circular saw with a fence set at 6.5mm, resulting in 6.5x25 or 6.5x50mm. You use them as is, no further machining, the thickened epoxy will take care of the joints, and the sanding after installation of the rest.
Of course you can pay someone to do the job for you, usually at some cabinetmaker shop. My advice for this, find a local cabinetmaker and tell him you need three aspen boards, 4000x250x50mm (or similar in cubic meters) cut into 6x50mm strips. Ask for a price out the door, with lumber and cutting.
Another thing, many of the wood sellers will tell you over the phone they only sell to businesses in cubic meters amounts. Don't be discouraged, go there, tell them yo need 3 or 4 clear boards for a desk, right now cash in hand, no receipt needed, how much please. Be prepared to have to pay and load them onto your car on the spot if it works.
Foam costs what it costs, PET is the cheapest, then PVC. PET has lower shear strength then PVC so you need a heavier grade. At the moment ArmaPET Struct GR100, 10mm can be had in Germany for 18.03€/sqm retail. The problem is shipping, it comes in 2448mm x 1008mm plates, so you need something local.
It's actually funny, Diab (makers of Divinycell) actually has a factory in Lithuania but the sales office is in Poland and the distributor in Estonia.
Contact us - Diab https://www.diabgroup.com/contact/
One thing with foam, epoxy isn't a must, polyester and vinylester can be used and are usually cheaper. But, the neighbors might not appreciate the smell, so it's not always an advantage the home builder can use.
3. Strip planking: planed and bead and cove strips are used by builders who want a natural wood look (clear, laquered). Otherwise square, raw strips work very well, some filler and paint will hide all the sins. Never heard of someone using profiled strips with foam, only square, but that doesn't mean someone didn't use it.
Strips are fixed to temporary frames, usually 12-19mm MDF, chipboard, OSB or solid wood, with staples, double headed nails, clamps, fishing line, etc. After the glue between the strips hardens, fasteners are removed, the surface faired and sanded smooth, then glassed. This is the same regardless if you use male or female forms, wood or foam. Then the hull is flipped and the process repeated on the other side. Frames and other stiffeners are installed after the interior has been glassed, via fillets and tape.
4. Foam building: stripping isn't the only way to get complex shapes with foam. That's why double cutting is offered, but that needs a more advanced mold system. Some foams can be thermoformed. Also stripping doesn't need to be longitudinal, you can go transverse with much wider strips.
In conclusion, I can't tell you what to do. One possibility would be to go more Moth, replace the hard wings with a mesh or fabric on aluminum or carbon tube outriggers (maybe with small xps floats under them so you don't capsize instantly). With the reduced surface area of the solid hull the heavier materials might allow for your weight target at a lower cost.
If you can find some good poplar or okoume ply obtaining the compound shape might be possible with some carefully placed darts, and fiberglass reinforcement. You will want to revisit this thread, it's a similar shape buildt in 3mm ply, but it's a longer boat.
6.5 to 7.5 metre performance/cruise multihulls https://www.boatdesign.net/threads/6-5-to-7-5-metre-performance-cruise-multihulls.52655/